Girlfriend won’t stop sleeping with other guys

Dear Pastor,

I am a regular reader of your column. I am a 22-year-old man and I am writing you to ask you if you would speak to my girlfriend on my behalf.

She is my first girlfriend. When I met her, I told her everything about myself. I got a job with her father and she used to come and help her father in his business.

The first time we had sex, we were left alone in the office and we closed the office door and had sex right behind the counter. I did not know that she was not a virgin. When I said that to her, she said that I did not ask her. Every time I get my pay cheque, I give her half of it. But I found out that she loves money and she is having sex with other guys. She told me I can leave her if I want to, but I don't want to leave her.

I have forgiven her for keeping other men with me, including my schoolmates. I am asking you please to speak to her for me. She has promised to get rid of all the other guys, if I would learn to be quiet about the things I have learned and not to mention them to anybody in the future. I told her that I will keep my word to her. So I am asking you, please speak to her for me.

P.L.

Dear P.L.,

I am begging you please to drop this young woman. She is not a good girl. She cannot keep her panties on. She is everybody's woman. Even if you were to marry her when you grow older, she would cheat on you. There is nothing in this young woman to be proud of. Find yourself another girlfriend, and drop this girl like hot bread.

Pastor