Two sisters are fighting over me

Dear Pastor,

I am 24 years old and I am having a problem. I have found myself in love with two sisters who live together.

Both of them love me and I have to admit that I love them too. Both of them have good jobs. Anything I ask them for, I get. The older sister works with a politician and she always has money. She helps her younger sister.

The first time I went out with the older sister, she told me that she had been watching me for a long time. I told her that I have a girlfriend, but I did not tell her that I was referring to her sister. After the event ended, I took her home, but she said I should come in and stay with her for a while because her sister had gone out for the weekend. Well, I went in, we watched movies, and one thing led to the other and we had sex.

Now I am in trouble because her other sister loves me. Although I had sex with the older sister, I love the younger one more. The older sister has a child but the child lives with her grandmother. I have been trying to keep away but her younger sister is always calling me and asking me why I am not coming to the house. She told her older sister that I am her boyfriend. Her sister told her she cannot have me because she has taken me for her boyfriend. So this has caused a big problem between them, and I am caught in the middle of it.

I don't know how to get out of it because I love the both of them. What can I do?

J.A.

Dear J.A.,

When the older sister suggested to you that you could stay over, you should have turned down the invitation.

You should have because you have already developed a relationship with her younger sister and any card could play, so to speak. You should have considered that that was an invitation to enter her parloir (you know what I mean). You should learn, my friend, to read the body language of a woman. She has been studying you, and while you were out with her that evening, she was determined that it was a good time for both of you to go to bed; and you fell into her trap.

When a man has become accustomed to taking money from a woman, it is not easy to reject her. You have been taking her money and you have given her the impression that she is special in your life. At the same time, her sister sees you as her boyfriend. Don't fool yourself; you love one of these women more than the other. If you know you love the younger sister more, tell the older sister the truth and move on. Don't go back to the house to see either of them because the older sister is likely to ask the younger sister to leave.

Pastor