Friend demanded money for threesome with my boyfriend

Dear Pastor,

I am 21 years old and I live with my boyfriend, who is 24. We have been living together for two years, and we get along very well. Last year I told him that I would give him something special for his birthday. This man is paying all my bills because I did not grow up in a well-off family.

I have a friend and I invited her to come and spend time with us. I knew that she is the type of girl who would do whatever I tell her to do. She is from a better home, but she comes from the rural area. She came to Kingston on a Friday. I had to work so I left her at home with my boyfriend.

While I was away they cooked. It seems to me that they also got to know each other very well .

Pastor, we went out on the eve of my boyfriend's birthday to a party, but before we went, we bought drinks and when we came home, we decided to give my boyfriend a threesome. It was not something I have ever done, but my friends tell me that they did it before. The friend I carried home also told me that she has does it. We almost had a fall out because before we started to fool around, she asked me how much money I was going to give her, and I asked her what money. She told me that I can't expect her to sleep with my boyfriend and not to get anything for her pocket. I had some new panties and I told her I would give her a few of them, and I would give her $15,000 out of my savings. I couldn't ask my boyfriend for any money because it was his birthday, and I had agreed to give him something special.

This thing almost destroyed our relationship. We spent the day together and when I told her alright, that is enough, my boyfriend wanted more sex. I told her she should'nt agree to that, she should've gone to bathroom and showered and go to bed. But she was all over him. That, however, was only part of the problem. This girl took away some of my jewellery and I feel hurt about it because the day after my boyfriend's birthday she left, and when I was looking for my jewellery, I couldn't find them.

Pastor, if you were to see the girl, you would have been surprised. You would not think that she is a thief. She is very good looking and she has light complexion and she is working. So what she got from me is extra money for agreeing to do the threesome. I told her that I want back my jewellery, she said she didn't take them, but I know that she is the one who took them. It is a fact that nobody else came into the house.

I will never have her back in my house, but my boyfriend keeps telling me that I don't have any proof that she took the jewellery. It looks as if he is standing up for her. I asked an ex-policeman if I could take her to court. I didn't tell him about the threesome part, but he said that would be a waste of time. She took a pair of earrings and a chain that cost me lots of money.

I am asking you for your advice. Please tell me what to do, I want my things back.

L.