My boyfriend may have got my sister pregnant

Dear Pastor,

I am a 35-year-old woman and I have two children by a man. My father gave me a piece of land and I got help to put up a two-bedroom place. One of my brothers, who is a builder, assisted me. I have an outside sister and she came and was spending time with me. She is younger than I am. I was not paying any attention to her and my boyfriend. She behaved as if she was a silly country girl. She would do anything for my boyfriend.

My boyfriend likes to DJ and he would call on her to practise with him. She told me she would love to stay in Kingston when COVID-19 goes away, and go out and perform with my boyfriend. He was encouraging her all the way and telling her how she would have to dress to perform with him. To cut a long story, Pastor, my sister is now pregnant for my boyfriend. When I asked her how that could have happened, she said it only happened one time. She agreed to give him and she didn't know he would have got her pregnant. She has a boyfriend and she had sex with her boyfriend and with my boyfriend during the same week. She said that when she had sex with her boyfriend, he pulled out. But my boyfriend did not pull out.

Every day my boyfriend is begging me to pardon him and he blames my sister for throwing herself at him. My sister is only 22 years old. It is going to be trouble between him and me if he is responsible for getting her pregnant. My sister is very very slim and my boyfriend is very big and strong. Looking at her, I did not even know she could take a man as big as my boyfriend. I found out that they had sex when I saw a text message in his phone. My boyfriend did not deny it and neither did she.

N.C.

Dear N.C.,

Evidently your sister is very naive but you are careless too. Your boyfriend, who is a so-called DJ, took advantage of the situation. You rubbed butter in puss mouth and he could not resist what he saw. You should realise that even if a woman is very slim and a man is muscular he could have sex with the slimmest woman. So this matter about not expecting your boyfriend to 'deal' with your very skinny sister is nonsense.

Your sister has no ambition. Her morals are very bad. You are blood sisters and she should not have gone to bed with your man. Shame on both of them. Whether it was your boyfriend who got her pregnant or her boyfriend who impregnated her, you should ask her to leave and don't wait until the child is born. Make sure a paternity test is done soon after your sister has given birth to ascertain who is the biological father.

Pastor