Boyfriend’s penis is just too small

Dear Pastor,

This is the first time I am writing to you. I am 19 years old and I have a boyfriend. I had a boyfriend before him when I was 17.

I went to see him play at a football match and he had another girlfriend there, and at the end of the match, she went and hugged him and kissed him and I felt embarrassed, so I left.

He could not give me a good explanation for what happened so we broke up. I am in love with this other guy. Although his body looks very big, he has a small penis and I can't understand why. He gives me everything I want. I go to his home on Saturdays and sometimes I have to be pushing him to get him to have sex with me before I go back home. What do you think is wrong? I am a good girl. I don't want to cheat on him. I told him I would not cheat but I may not keep my promise for too long. My boyfriend is only 28 years old. His penis looks like that of a little boy. Whenever we are having sex I don't feel anything.

M.T.

Dear M.T.,

According to you, this young man has a very small penis and you believe that keeping him as your boyfriend is a waste of time. You do not want to fool this young man and to give him the impression that you are happy with him when you know in your heart that you are not, and that you are likely to cheat on him. This is something that both of you have to talk about.

I would suggest both of you talk over this matter and if you feel like you are wasting your time with him, move on. But do not stay with him while you are having another relationship with another man.

Pastor