Can’t keep up with my girlfriend in bed

Dear Pastor,

I am 35 years old and my girlfriend is 21. We are living together. When we started living together I was excited about the relationship. My mother told me to bring her to see her and she would teach her to cook. She was weak in that area. My mother taught her how to cook rice and peas and chicken. After work, she would go straight to my mother and I would pick her up there. My mother also taught her how to bake. I am having such a big problem now, Pastor. This girl wants us to have sex every night and sometimes more than once, and when I try to tell her that I am tired, she does not believe me. She tells me that she believes that I am having sex with another woman. Pastor, I don't have any other woman. It is so hard to keep up with this girl.

R.T.

Dear R.T.,

This girl is much younger than you and so it is not unusual for a partner who is younger to be more interested in sex than the older partner. She might consider having sex with you every night as exciting but she wants more. How are you going to satisfy her and convince her that you are not having sex with another woman? You will have to satisfy her by using other means apart from sexual intercourse. Therefore, I would suggest both of you go to see a sex therapist for advice. Some couples seem to think that sex two or three times a night is routine, while others are not able to do so, especially if they are hard-working people. I wish you well.

Pastor