I have two boyfriends

August 15, 2019

Dear Pastor,

I am 18 years old and I am very confused. I have two boyfriends. One treats me very bad and says that he loves me and the other one has changed. He used to be attentive and show me that he cares, but all of that has stopped. I am very confused. I don't know if they are using me, and I really want to have one boyfriend, but I don't know which one to choose. So I am asking for your advice.


Dear M,

It seems to me that both of these guys are tired of you. They have got what they wanted from you. They say they love you, but their actions don't show it. You may want to have one boyfriend, but you should not consider any one of these guys to be the one you should go with. They have not been good to you.

You are only 18 years old; don't allow these fellows to treat you as a doormat. Sometimes guys walk away from girls when they think that they have had enough of them. They are always looking for new girls. So keep that at the back of your head, so to speak, and don't allow them to use you.


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